It’s been two weeks since I came to London and I cannot suppress
the urge to write down my thoughts and experiences thus far. It is not so much
for sharing as well as for my own record keeping, as reading the blogs I used
to keep when living in Katowice, New Delhi, and Sanmenxia, respectively, are a
great means of reviving my time spent there and I reckon London does not
deserve a different treatment.
So, two weeks of London, what is it like? How does it feel,
this new foreign adventure, for which I have had to wait more than three years?
Late June 2009 I arrived at Dusseldorf airport, having flown from Beijing and
ever since the Netherlands has been the place of residence. September 15th
2012 the new adventure commenced, and thus far I live up to it to the fullest.
The differences are remarkable, compared with the warm cosy
nest of social life that an Erasmus experiences entails, the chaos of India
with the peace and quiet of a true home in Kalkaji with my international
friends, and the relative luxury but far greater social challenges that five
months in China implied. So relatively speaking London is easy, with a great
apartment arranged and paid for by the bank, fifteen minutes by bike to work,
with Vasiliki, Dana, and Gabriel already living in London and thus safeguarding
the warm welcome and social life in a new country, and David, a co-trainee of
mine, living in the same building, working at the same place, and being great
company throughout.
The very place I am writing this new start of a blog
resembles some of the luxury I am surrounded with; I am on my balcony, having
dragged a table outside, with my laptop being charged through an extension
cable, looking up at a blue sky, and some Enya music playing from the speakers
of my laptop. This must sound like I am in shorts and t-shirt in bright sun
light, but the towering buildings around me prevent such holiday feelings, and
thick sweater and jacket make the temperature just bearable outside. At least
it is not raining, with I consider already a huge treat, given the ominous
murmuring of people at work when I ask them about general weather conditions in
London.
Highlights so far, I wouldn’t know where to start. Freshest
on the mind is last night, when Dana took me about for drinks. Dana and I
arrived the very same hour in India the 28th of August 2008, so we
witnessed each others’ first impressions of the turmoil and chaos and filth and
awesomeness that Delhi is. January 2009 she went back to England and I moved on
to China, and yesterday was the first time in all those years that we reunited.
As if no time had passed! Memories of India, stories of our lives post India,
and plans for the future; a few drinks and a regular change of bars made for a
splendid evening. Come Monday I will board a train after work to make the
daring journey to wattfort or what the name may be, being a suburb of London
and contemporary home to Dana. Apparently there’s a forest and mountains and
what not –I may exaggerate- but the plan is to go running as she’s training for
half the marathon and I have no other sports to exercise here. Should be fun!
Always on the mind shall also remain the morning when David
and I were in our daily struggle to find the quickest route to work (which we
have by now found), as we take rental bikes every morning insofar as the
weather allows to do so. Having just taken another wrong turn, it was a few
yards of pedestrian area that led us back to the road we were supposed to take.
I had been walking with my bike alongside me but David was still on his,
something which did not go unnoticed to an elderly gentleman walking to work. His red
nose and glazy eyes were somewhat of a contrast to his suited-up appearance,
and I would not have been surprised if his last drink had been a shot of
whiskey rather than the supposed-to-be daily start of every self-respecting
Englishman; a cup of tea with too much milk blended in. Nonetheless, the
accusations he growled at David made clear he did not approve of people cycling
on the pedestrian area, and the no doubt well-intending youth who had sold this
man a newspaper half an hour prior to this remarkable event probably hadn’t
expected that the very piece of paper would be used to bitch-slap Dutch
cyclists. David, however, in stark contrast to my flabbergasted state of mind,
could only laugh, and after growling a few more gloomy words the old fellow
disappeared in the crowds.
By now it is getting colder and darker and my hands feel
slightly numb, which makes typing a bit of a challenge. I could do with the
steaming cup of coffee I had this morning with Vasiliki, her Polish guest who I
also know from Tilburg times, and David. Every day new bars, restaurants, and
coffee houses emerge, making living in London a dynamic adventure in which only
the very best places are visited more than once. By now I already have a list
of favourites, posing the dilemma of a constant trade-off of where to go;
trying out new venues or sticking to the awesome ones that are known and
appreciated? “New is always better” often prevails.
For tonight David and I have bought port and a lot of
promising cheeses and bread to make a splendid combination – or so the guy
selling us the cheese reassured. Marijn, a Dutch intern from work, and perhaps
Vasiliki will pass by for a bite and a drink. After having lived in India and
in Holland contemporaneously, England is the third country that hosts Vasiliki
and myself at the same time, and I love the ease with which I can visit her,
call her, have a drink after work or a coffee Saturday morning. True friends
can miss out on seeing one another for years and have the same magic spark the
instant they are reunited, which is something to cherish and hold on to.
Well, the cold is getting the better of me and my ability to type properly, so I had better call it a day and move up to David’s apartment (he’s having a great view from the 12th floor, I have the balcony, and we both share crappy internet). Soon more and better!


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